The launcher showing a 9999 ping for all servers, means the local launcher can not query the servers.
This is probably some wrong with your ISP maybe or an internet routing issue. There is nothing I can fix on my end to solve this.
@zombiedeathteam first thing I would do is uninstall, remove all the lingering files from the A3L directory. Download the A3L again. if that doesn't fix it then possibly one of the mods that are trying to be loaded for the server could be corrupted.
I don't know if its unrelated but I'm having trouble loading into any server, even ones I played on just this morning. The launcher tries to directly connect to the server but it just sits on its respective loading screen endlessly (Let it try to sort itself for over an hour). It started when I tried to play epoch, and now when I'm in the server list the mods I'd enabled aren't matching the server I started for.